Sunday, July 21, 2013
Do you like to talk with strangers? I think that it depends on the person, but it's also related to their culture. I live in the US and American people whom I don't know often talk to me. I often see people talking with strangers in the same elevator, and I often see customers and cashiers making small talk at stores. They compliment style of strangers on the street. It looks like they could say whatever they want in any situations. They are just chatting rather than talking about very important things. They seem to enjoy it, or at the very least they don't care.
On the other hand, Japanese people don't talk to strangers unless it is necessary such as asking directions or other questions. They even think that talking to strangers is impolite sometimes. They think that it bothers other people. Perhaps they don't want to interact with other people? Or they are just nervous about it? I don't know, but if you started a conversation without a reason, it might be weird and make them uncomfortable.
What do you think? Which do you prefer? I like a culture which is allowed to talk with strangers freely, but... I'm actually nervous about it. It's conflicting! I am trying to talk to people. If I meet you by chance, can you talk with me??
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Online dating is getting very common here in the US. Many of my friends are using or have used it. We often talk about online dating openly. If someone is looking for a partner, we recommend that they try online dating. Some people still say that it's not natural, but I think that it is one of the ways to meet people in current society.
On the other hand, it's not common in Japan. Many Japanese people think that online dating is bad. I think one of the reasons is there are a lot of bad news about online dating and people think it is dangerous. They are afraid that
I had been using online dating, and I found a nice partner through it and have been getting along with him for a year. There is the only problem when people ask the question how we met each other. I don't want to say the truth to Japanese people because I'm afraid they think I don't have a moral. However, my boyfriend is an American and does't know about my feelings at all and says the truth!
Oh well... No one cares how we met each other if we are doing well now, don't they?
Saturday, April 27, 2013
Here in Michigan it is still cold. We even had snow a few days ago. We have a long winter this year. I look forward to seeing many flowers blooming. Yesterday I took a walk in a park which has a big cherry tree, but I couldn't see any cherry blossoms yet.
Cherry blossoms are kind of important to Japanese people. There are many cherry trees here and there in Japan. Japanese people really like cherry blossoms. People think that when the flowers bloom, spring has come. we have parties under the cherry blossoms, which are called “Ohanami”.
Again, We have many cherry trees, but we have to compete to get good places. So we save our seats early in the morning and keep sit there until the parties start, usually at night. This role is done by the junior of positions in the company or the group…
We often eat traditional Japanese food, and drink sake and beer there. We also eat sweet Japanese dumplings called “dango”. Some people do karaoke or party stunts. Then we don’t see the cherry blossoms any more… We have a proverb “hana yori danngo” (dumplings rather than flowers) which means that dumplings (substance) is preferable to beautiful things like flowers (appearance)that we cannot eat.
I miss the crazy Japanese culture...
Sunday, February 24, 2013
Did you celebrate it? I made chocolate (see pictures) and give it to my boyfriend and a few of my friends, too. I got a cute stuffed squirrel holding a flower made of chocolate.
Japan also have a Valentine's day. But the way to celebrate the day is different between the US and Japan.
In Japan, only women give chocolates to men, but not the other way. They give expensive and thoughtful chocolate to their boyfriend/husband. Woman is traditionally not allowed to declare her love, but only the valentine's day is exception. They also give small chocolates to many men, like their male friends, colleagues and bosses.
Do you think men are lucky?
Actually, the answer is "NO".
There is a day called "white day" in Japan. It's on March 14th, one month after the Valentine's day. It's the time that men return presents to women. You are supposed to prepare a present three times as expensive as the chocolate you got!
How lucky women are! :)
Friday, February 15, 2013
I started learning English in a middle school.
What we learn first is " This is a pen" while we point out the pen. We also learn at the same time "This is not a pencil." Isn't it funny? We never use these sentences. You know if it's a pen or a pencil when you see it. Then we next learn "Is this a pen?" Are you making fun of me!?
Another thing we learn is this conversation.
" Hello, Taro. How are you?" "I'm fine, thank you. And you?"
Well, I don't think they are wrong. But because everyone learns just this pattern, if you ask Japanese "how are you?", everyone makes exactly the same answer. If you ask "How's it going?" or "How are you doing?", Japanese people would be confused. "I'm not going..." " I'm doing... I'm talking with you..."
I also learned " How do you do?" which I have never used or heard since I came to the US.
As time passes... learning English is getting more popular and important. Now children start learning English in elementary school. I think English education in Japan should be changed.
Monday, February 4, 2013
The Japanese educational system may be the most effective in the world, even though the government provides fewer funds for education than several other countries including the
. For example, Japanese factory
workers are more educated than American workers and the illiteracy rate is very
low in US .
Furthermore, Japanese youngsters get higher test scores than children of other
countries. These achievements are not because the government spends much money
on education. In fact, only five percent of Japanese GNP is devoted to public
education whereas six to eight percent are devoted in other countries. The
Japanese educational achievement depends on their effective education system. Japan
One of the reasons why the Japanese educational system works well is that Japanese schools are more consistent than American schools in what they teach and how they teach. The Ministry of Education in
distributes a very detailed curriculum, and specifies exactly what subjects
should be taught and what materials should be used. This uniformity in
education is acceptable to Japanese based on their culturally ingrained
reluctance to be different from others because of their very homogeneous
country. Therefore, everyone from slow learners to good learners can get the
same education in elementary and junior high school and all students desire to
learn at least basic skills to keep up with others, although the children are
afraid to lose their individuality in the consistent education system. Japan
Another plausible reason for the high educational achievement in
might be that academic competition for getting admission to university is very
severe. This competition begins in kindergarten to get into good primary
schools. Admission to good primary schools generally provides success to good
junior high schools and good high schools followed by good universities. To
help children succeed on their competition, Japanese parents hustle them into
supplementing regular schools called jukus, which are aimed at children who are
already doing well. Jukus are necessary for the competition because only how
the applicant does on the entrance exam matters but not other characteristics, such
as wealth or personality for getting admission to a public university. Even
has numerous numbers of universities including many more private universities, most
major corporations, institutions and the government invite only graduates of
selected universities. Indeed, the status that a Japanese youngster ultimately
achieves in life is determined by what university he manages to get into. However, even though Japanese youngsters desperately
do everything, only two out of three applicants win university admission, and the
remainders are relegated to obscurity. Therefore, many students endure great mental
stress imposed by this educational competition, and some of them have nervous
breakdown. Thus, the Japanese academic battle might be effective and very
severe but it comes at a cost. Japan
However, despite the effectiveness in Japanese education, there is at least one point in which Japanese education is less efficient than American education. Most universities in
give opportunities for youngsters to pursue individual interests. Indeed, many youngsters
are put into large classes whose studies are rigidly prescribed and Japanese
professors are not dedicated for education. These environments make youngsters
lose their motivation to study in university. Even more important, Japanese youngsters
think that university is the only time that they are likely experience genuine
personal freedom, while American youngsters find themselves working harder. Japanese
professors also do not regard if students attend classes and study hard.
Because Japanese industry does not require specialized skills of youngsters but
they are measured by the university entrance exam, the admission to university
is a kind of liberation in Japan .
In addition, graduate schools in Japan are generally small and not
good so that Japanese universities play a smaller role in the national research
than American universities. As a result, Japanese who need graduate study are
much more likely attempt to go abroad than Americans. Japan
The other problem of Japanese education is bad teaching of the English language. Even though Japanese students learn English from junior high school through high school, they learn the grammatical technicalities of English but not speaking skills. Therefore, most Japanese do not speak good English. However, the bad instruction in English has been changing and the number of the young Japanese people who can speak good English is increasing with the advance of globalization.
Thus, the Japanese education system might be effective but it also has several problems, and this system is based on their cultural elements such as the desire to obtain a secure position in a company.